Friday, 26 June 2009 18:27
|Â ||Â Youâ€™re right in saying that a relationship is more than a physical attraction. Your boyfriend might have a very high sex drive that keeps his hands frisky. Youâ€™ll need to find a way to distract him, and remind him that a relationship also involves an emotional connection. |
Arrange to meet him at less deserted areas. Indulge in some shopping, sightseeing, or even a visit to the Singapore Zoo. This could distract his lustful intentions, and allow you guys to spend some quality time together. In fact, he might even enjoy it so much that it becomes a habit to do something else besides making out.
If youâ€™re wearing very low-cut and revealing outfits, start off by covering up with a shawl or cardigan. You donâ€™t have to permanently change your wardrobe though; itâ€™s just for this period of time.
If he still persists in wanting to make out all the time, then itâ€™s time for a chat. Tell him that a relationship is more than just making out, and that you want to get to know his emotional side as well as his physical side.
Do note that you donâ€™t have to stop making out with him completely, because physical attraction plays a part in maintaining a relationship. Let him know that everything should be done in moderation. He should not get angry or stay upset for long, because if your guy loves you, he should not be making you do things that you arenâ€™t comfortable with. On the bright side, at least your guy respects you enough not to feel you up in public.