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I earn more than my boyfriend, so he expects me to pay for everything when we go out. Initially I didn’t mind, but now it’s starting to bother me. How do I tell him that I’m not happy with this? - Ayu, 21 PDF Print E-mail
Thursday, 28 May 2009 18:01


If you earn a lot more than your boyfriend, then perhaps it will be easier on him if you pick up the tab a few more times than he does. However, that does not give him the right to leech off you! Have a talk with him. Explain that while love has nothing to do with money and materialism, the current situation is unfair to you.


If you are comfortable paying more but just want him to contribute what he can afford, suggest perhaps that he pay occasionally, or for smaller expenses such as fast food and drinks. Otherwise, just go Dutch each time you go out.




Also, you could try to make your dates and outings a little more pocket-friendly by doing more low-cost activities together. For instance, a picnic in a park or on the beach is a good way to spend quality time together without forking out a bomb.
Last Updated ( Friday, 29 May 2009 10:38 )
38 Tuesday, 12 August 2014 14:21
sandey wilson
My name is SANDEY WILSON and I base in LONDON. UNITED KINGDOM ..“My life is back!!! After 14 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me and our two twins . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr OKAYA who i meet online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across alot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called sarah,she testified about how Dr OKAYA brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days and reverse the effect of their little boys cancer, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr OKAYA e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr OKAYA
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37 Wednesday, 23 July 2014 17:25
jane wembli
i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 7 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated don’t know what to do, i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr amine spell temple for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he traditional spell hospital casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you traditional spell hospital for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of ( getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend. and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.(
36 Monday, 21 July 2014 15:22
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34 Friday, 27 June 2014 18:52
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33 Friday, 23 May 2014 23:32

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32 Friday, 23 May 2014 14:09
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31 Wednesday, 21 May 2014 05:49
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30 Monday, 28 April 2014 23:54
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29 Friday, 18 April 2014 20:59
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28 Tuesday, 18 March 2014 05:33
Anne Lume
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27 Monday, 17 February 2014 16:16
Mandy Divanna
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our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my
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days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i
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in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly
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26 Thursday, 23 January 2014 15:16
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25 Thursday, 23 January 2014 15:10
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24 Thursday, 02 January 2014 13:57
Miss Wackos
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Miss Wackos
23 Sunday, 15 December 2013 17:00
Succaram Sha
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22 Tuesday, 26 November 2013 03:30
i just want to share my testimony here.. i was married for 12 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the life of my husband.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned me and my 3 kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster called ashra so i decided to try it reluctantly..although i didn't believe in all those things… then when he cast the spell, after 3 days that he told me, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are case anyone needs this man help, his email address his spells is for a better life
21 Tuesday, 29 October 2013 18:13
my boyfriend of two years let me for another girl because i accuse him of seen another girl and since then i have been trying to get him but he refuse to come back to me,he was not responding to my call or email and he even unfriend me in facebook and he told me that he is done with me.i was searching on the internet for help and i saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so i decided to give it a try and i contacted him and i explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me and guarantee me of 3days that my ex will come back to me and to my greatest surprise the third day a great miracle fell on me and my ex came back to me on the third day and he beg me for forgiveness i will continue to publish his name because he is my Savior and we are about to get married.if you need him to help you Email
20 Monday, 11 February 2013 20:37
My Life can be very displeasing especially when we loose the ones we love and cherish so much.My husband abandoned me and my 2 kids for 2 years he said he wanted new adventures.I asked what i had done wrong but he said nothing.He continued paying our bills but moved in with another woman i was so frustrated and a times i will cry all night because i needed my husband by my side. all thanks to, i was nearly loosing hope until i saw an article on how master james cast a love spell to make lovers come back. There is no harm in trying, i said to my self. i contacted him via email and after 24 hrs my story changed. words will not be enough to appreciate what he has done for me. i have promised to share the testimony as long as i live because he brought back happiness and joy into my life.If you having any kind of problem in your relationship and you need your man back i RECOMMEND master james .please do contact him directly on
19 Monday, 11 February 2013 20:18
i have discovered that I simply have had to make both physical and digital space and am moving forward. I’ve not found love yet, but I am starting to feel more positive emotions with the women I date. That is much better then the the past where my heart was dead and simply wouldn’t respond at all but finally come across he help me to get my ex love back and am so happy as ever before just want to say thank you.

yours faithfully
18 Thursday, 25 October 2012 04:22
This guy is a loser and i say this as a man.
I think a man should always pay for a woman even if she earns more than him and if she insists she can pay sometimes but than it should 70- 30 where the man pays 70 or 80 percent.
A real man should spoil his woman and that means carrying the shopping bags and opening doors too.
17 Wednesday, 26 September 2012 03:26
ruiz linder
Hello friends I am Ruiz Linda from united state of America I want to tell every that I have found the real spell caster and that he have just helped me get my husband back to me and the kids. I met this spell through a friends description and he told me that he help him to get his wife back when another man took her from him and then I decided to try him out and I discover that he is the best and he is very powerful and just yesterday my husband whom I thought will never come back to me came and said to me that he was sorry for leaving me. I now so happy that my desires have been fulfilled. Thank to the priest of the he is so powerful
16 Friday, 03 August 2012 14:25
I was heartbroken that my husband moved in with another woman so I had a spell to bring him back home and stop the affair he had with her. In just 2days he left her and went to live at the motel. He called to say so and get news of the kids. The discussion was pleasant, as if he was changing to become the man I knew when we got married. It was exactly as you said…. Now he’s back home and is absolutely crazy about me. I am so thrilled by this spell that I cant find the right words to say how I feel right now. All I can decently say is that you changed my life and saved the most important thing in my life: my family, way to contact my savior is
15 Sunday, 10 June 2012 01:47
Clark Tamara
I have been with my boyfriend for 1/2 yrs now. But he never said he loves me. One day I can't stand this anymore, then I asked him why he doesn't say "I love you" to me ever? His answer is he doesn't feel he loves me. He tried and thought he can develop love for me, but it doesn't seem working. Later, he even told me he doesn't know what he wants from me and from our relationship. Altho I am a greatest person, he can't love me, and I can't force him to love me. But the more I am with him, the more I fall in love with him. Just he doesn't feel the same way-still stays in the same stage as the beginning-likes me. How can I make him love me? I need "love" from my boyfriend. If there's no "love" in a relationship, it's a dead relationship. I went online for online spell casters and i saw this temple who helped me to make him love me and come back to me if not for the help of Dr Ijebu i would have single till to day all thanks to I am Clark Tamara
14 Sunday, 10 June 2012 01:43
Rose Andy
I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and we love each other more than anything in this world. Suddenly, his behavior get strange and he ask me to stay away from him that he is fed up.Two days later i saw him with another girl kissing,i was so confused so my friend told about this online temple called and he gave me a returning spell. four days later he called me and apologize for the mistake he made.And now we are together for good, all thanks to that makes me a happy person again without stress i owe you and your orphanage home
13 Sunday, 10 June 2012 01:39
I knew my boyfriend for two years and then we started dating. He was interested in me for a long time before we starting going out. Now it has been over a year that we have been dating exclusively and I'm crazy about him. The problem is that he says he isn't in love with me yet. He says he do not care about me and he want to break up with me. One day when i was checking through the internet, i saw many testimonies about this temple called obolospelltemple@gmail. com and i contacted the temple in three day time the spell caster called me on phone and told me that my spell has be cast. Four days later me boyfriend came to my house and ask for my forgiveness and using the words I LOVE YOU i was so happy and now we are together having the best time together. All i want to say is this THANK YOU for making me one of the happiest woman in my area. Penny
12 Thursday, 16 December 2010 05:24
My girlfriend earns double what I earn. I don't really feel like I get any benefit from this. I end up in more expensive places more often. I have less disposable income then I had before I met her. The benefits aren't things I really value. I live in a place that is bigger than I could afford and I end up going to more expensive restaurants and hotels more often. I felt like I had a lot more control over my life before I met her. Its like I am forced to live a life I can't (or don't want) afford.
11 Sunday, 28 February 2010 10:51
As a guy, he shouldn't do this to you. You should honest to him that this will hurt you and will be a big problem in the future and how you both want to sustain the longer relationship. No way...
10 Sunday, 02 August 2009 07:55
it's not cool when your guy expects you to pay everything. you have to tell him to stop treating you like an ATM. you can suggest that you will both share the bills if only it's a big amount. as for the smaller amount, he have to pay in full. it's the time for him to take responsibility as a man.
9 Thursday, 30 July 2009 12:37
Well, i think guys should pay. If he cant pay anything, how can he afford to have a girlfriend while he cant afford himself as well? I despise stingy guy. He have to learn to willing to spend for you at times you know.. Not you pay all the things or whatsoever. Tell him straight and be stern if you have discussed this before with him and he wouldnt listen.

Or perharps date in more saving way as what mentioned on the post. Not every date need to spend with "money"
8 Saturday, 25 July 2009 21:57
i'm not working yet*
7 Saturday, 25 July 2009 21:55
i'm kind of in the same situation. but i'm working yet so all the money i have comes from my montly allowance. the same goes for my BF. i'm from a wealthier family compared to my BF. though i don't mind spending, i wished he'd help pay sometimes. i have talked to him about this before. he said that he just doesn't have the money to spend on us due to his family circumstances. what am i suppose to answer to that without hurting he's feelings? do i just suck it up?
6 Sunday, 19 July 2009 00:44
if that bf is someone you wanna get marry..discuss with him about future, ask him give you some of his salary and let you keep it, if he is serious about you, he will agree with your plans and follow, or he start do all sorts of excuse, what for you spent your time and your money + your effort to maintain the relationship? dun let a guy who simply take your hand, intimate with you or now get your money to his own spending and end up to nothing...
5 Friday, 19 June 2009 03:48
hi ayu,
you said you are earning more than your bf does, which means he earns something too. So he should be able to afford even small stuffs. its ok to spend for dates with your bf several times since he is your bf and it feels good when u give but hahaha it doesn't feel good anymore if the relationship is "give and give" set up for you. you really have to let him know about this, an honest and careful confrontation will work for sure.
4 Thursday, 04 June 2009 18:33
dear ayu, i do understand how u feel coz my bf oso earn less than me. here's a few tips 4 u 2 do....
1) confront him and tell him how u feel.
if dat doesnt work..
2) cabar his ego by saying, "after all this while i feel like i'm da boyfriend and ur da girlfriend." when he ask y u say like dat, u answer him that ur da one yg belanja him always.
say " jeles nya nampak gf org lain kat office.eventhough their bf works as a messengger pun boleh belanja their gf"
3) go outing with less $$ and ask him to sponsor you.
4) if nothing works, just say GOODBYE n NICE KNOWING U.

but before u do all of this, hear out his side of story. try to understand his situation oso. GIVE N TAKE LER katakan...
well, good luck to u.
3 Saturday, 30 May 2009 09:24
Tell him face to face that u dont like wats hes doing.
Let him know thats its not all right for u to keep paying for dates cos u earn more than him.
He sounds like a free-loading jerk to me
2 Friday, 29 May 2009 13:46

Just tell him lah.
" Darling, I am not happy that I am the one who is always paying. Its your turn."
--> Then give him the bill.

You dont have to "JAGA HIS HATI ALL THE TIME"

If this is the person you would like to have a long term relationship with, then you should be able to voice out anything you want, in whichever way you like.

Ta Ta
1 Friday, 29 May 2009 13:13
1st, as a man, he shdn't xpect the gf to pay the bills all the time. If occasionally then it's fair. When we, new generation girls never xpect guys to pay the bills all the time, y must u guys xpect us paying 4 it. Like i said, occasionally is ok. Ayu, i think u must b too good towards him till u spoilt him. Hv a soft talk 2 him. Don juz keep everything in ur heart as tis will lead 2 a broken relationship. Juz b honest 2 him n let him know how u feel. If he really cannot afford, at least he shd contribute certain portion of the bill. At least he must b fair 2 u. It's not the easy $ dat we earn anyway.


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