I've had a crush on this guy who takes the same bus as me every morning. Is there anything I can wear to catch his attention?

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I've had a crush on this guy who takes the same bus as me every morning. Is there anything I can wear to catch his attention? - Clara, 25

Wednesday, 04 May 2011 12:25

Xavier See, Dating Coach, Author of alife2love.com says:

Men are visual creatures, especially when it comes to women. I am sure you have seen it happen countless times, a Man would date a girl with the personality of broccoli if she looked like a goddess. Men are attracted to vibrant, friendly women who are often spotted wearing charming smiles and bright, energetic colours. If you really want to catch his attention, you will want to wear:

1. A Smile

There is nothing more vibrant and friendly than a charming smile. Fact: Women who smile more get more male attention. Everybody is attracted to good feelings!

2. Clothes That Compliment You

On first sight, there is nothing that appeals more to a Man than a Woman's figure. In Asia, we have even gone as far as to coin a phrase, "Cover the face, attack the base". As such, you will want to choose your clothes wisely. Having a good understanding of vibrant, friendly colours and fit of your clothes is important. You will want to accentuate your best features and draw less attention to areas of your body you are still working on. Remember, there is a difference between trashy and classy.

3. Accessories
One way to catch a Man's attention is to accessorize. Putting on a big pair of dark shades may make you feel like a diva and will get you attention, but it's useless if you don’t get the right attention. Instead, opt for a pair of light-coloured shades, funky necklaces, bangles and watches. One friend of mine actually met his girlfriend on the train when he started a conversation by asking her what time it was on her really cool watch. But keep in mind to observe the rule of "moderation" - too much bling can make you look like you’re overdoing it.

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COMMENTS (4)

hmm...maybe u smile at him everytime until u decide to make friends with him. should be no problem. Good Luck to u!

I think the best way is to talk to him.No harm making friends

don't know if i will start a chat with a guy i don't know so i will stick to catching his attention. interesting to hear from a male perspective!

Well first, try to figure out what kind of women he likes, and match up to that. For example, if he likes more feminine women, try wearing more feminine clothes such as elegant dresses, skirts, etc. If he likes more "hip" and "outgoing" types, try to match your style to his taste. But don't look like you're trying too hard! Oh, and try starting a conversation with him. Constant eye contact is a good start.

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